On the natural response of misunderstanding our wives emotions…

When a man doesn’t seem to be able to get a handle on his wife’s emotional responses, that is, her inner feelings, the natural male response is to resort to demeaning, verbal, or even physically abusive behavior. The resulting silence or lack of resistance can falsely lead him to believe he has solved the problem. […]

When a man doesn’t seem to be able to get a handle on his wife’s emotional responses, that is, her inner feelings, the natural male response is to resort to demeaning, verbal, or even physically abusive behavior. The resulting silence or lack of resistance can falsely lead him to believe he has solved the problem. However, instead of solving the problem, reducing the tension and stress, he has multiplied dramatically the intensity of the problem.